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What makes Mistress Bella such an outstanding domme?

  When I first sessioned with Mistress Bella, in January 2019, I had been a sporadic guest at Avalon over the previous four or five years. I was expecting to continue the pattern of occasional visits to the studio – perhaps two or three times a year. Yet within a week, I was back for more. In fact, we ended up sessioning regularly – 12 times in 2019 – and I was spending the intervening periods fondly recollecting the amazing things we had done, and eagerly looking forward to the next time we could get together. I would have loved to be able to see her even more frequently. Her impact on me was immediate and lasting. What made, and what makes, her so special in my eyes?   Mistress Bella likes people, and treats her guests with respect. She likes bodies, and handles all parts of the body with confidence. She has her boundaries, but is unshockable. You can talk openly about your desires with her. She is discreet and reliable. She is highly professional in the way she approaches her

Yellow Facts – piss and fuck party at Lab.oratory

Lab.oratory is a gay club in the same building as the famous Berghain nightclub. It has a reputation for offering quite hardcore events, such as cruising in total darkness and fetish parties. One of these regular events is called “Yellow Facts – piss and fuck party”.   Now, I’m not interested in sex with other men – not least, I am too scared of picking up something nasty at a place like Lab.oratory. But I am a piss-slut. I love drinking piss, having piss enemas, being pissed on.   So far, I’d only enjoyed water sports in sessions with dommes, where the rules are clear. But what would it be like at a gay fetish club? I did my research, and found little information online outside the Lab.oratory’s impressively uninformative website, and some of what I did find turned out to be wrong (for example I had read somewhere that on arrival I would have a number written in marker pen on my shoulder – this was a source of anxiety, as explaining that at home would be rather difficult).

Nails - illegal in England?

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One of my pleasures is to go one further than needles, and to bang nails through my cock and balls, or at least the skin. Perhaps it is given added excitement by the knowledge that such harmless consensual acts are illegal in my home country, the United Kingdom. What happens when Mistress Bella gets hold of a hammer and nails The first time we tried it, Mistress Bella nailed my foreskin and scrotum to a piece of wood. As we started, and as she picked up the hammer and sterilised nails, I asked if she’d done this before – her slightly evasive reply elicited a follow-up query, and she then conceded that she’d, er, “watched” it being performed… Anything to raise the level of interest on the part of the guest! Of course, she delivered exquisite pain with great care, as always, and the nails only passed through the skin, not the glans or the testes, and the minor wounds cleared up within a day or two. These harmless activities are reminiscent of the infamous “Operation Spanner” case , i

Appearing in porn videos

Many people dream of starring in a porn video. And something that used to involve lots of technology, camera operators, editors and the like, can now be achieved with nothing more than a basic smartphone. Certainly, plenty of subs are making use of these new possibilities, filming themselves wanking or doing painful things to themselves (or both), before uploading the images to sharing sites.   Moving beyond these mainly amateurish homemade efforts, it is far more exciting to be included in a video produced and posted by a professional dominatrix. In fact, it is not only exciting, it is an honour to receive such recognition.   I never expected to see videos or images of myself online. I assumed I wasn’t fit or attractive enough. However, since becoming a slave of Mistress Bella, she has made and posted several videos of our games. For an exhibitionist like me, that is really exciting. My only red line is that my face should not be recognisable.   So, a year or two back It w